So love, I wanted to drop a note and share with you what I have been witnessing as a theme this 2020 New Year.
It’s the power of Unearthing Our Secret (often HIDDEN) desires. Desires are a funny thing.They ultimately connect us to the very core of a life that truly lights us up as sacred women, AND always leads us into more of our evolution - YET it can be scary to claim them.
DESIRE is the very essence of the primal creative energy that wants to express itself through us, paving the way for an experience that allows us to more fully experience our divinity here in this physical form. We get to if we choose birth ourselves a NEW over and over again. Yet, you know- it’s not always been safe for women to powerfully land in our sovereignty harnessing our full capacity to create a life based on our deepest feminine desires, and SO we often hide desires that feel stretchy in the secret corridors of our soul.
Our conscious mind loves to keep us safe - from the visible expression of secret desires that have the potential to take the experience of our true self to the next level.
I see this happen with women in their lives & business around:
different program offers
new ways of showing up (a secret desire to teach or mentor on a certain topic or to be SEEN as an expert)
the creation of a certain amount of money that would open them up for more travel or pleasure
more intimacy with their partner
a child
or more time for themselves and their creativity
a business venture or vision they have to create new streams of income.
Our secret desires can lurk beneath the surface of life unnoticed in many ways, and there are many reasons why women dance around their deeper secret or hidden desires without fully claiming them.
Here Are A Few:
If you claim your secret desire you may have to show up more fully, and more visibility.
Our desires ultimately at every level of expression ask us to claim more space in the physical world in some way in some capacity as we bring the unseen into the seen this is a natural consequence. I see it over and over again. The world around her will have to adjust and that means doing a journey that will require her to shift the pieces of her world to support this new secret desire.
It also means showing up, deciding your going to bring forth this deeper desire, and believing in your ability to create something that ultimately might push your edge of what you believe you are capable of.
Do it anyway! That edge is where the growth is. Once that desire is claimed, magic begins to unfold to support you, and you are on the evolutionary track of your highest authentic expression in this lifetime.It may mean asserting new boundaries around your time, focus and attention.
This can mean negotiating more time with a partner that doesn’t want to give up his/her personal time in order for you to create the space you need to nurture your deeper desire.
Do it anyway! A true deeper desire is meant for you. Life will shift to support you, grow you, and evolve you into a more fulfilled version of the woman you were born to be. THAT impacts everyone around you. It benefits all. Choose you! It’s safe.It often means ASKING for MORE of what you want.
Using your voice to ask for more of what you want (and even right here there are often layers of blocks for women around guilt, permission, rejection, and worthiness issues especially if you have JUST asked for life in the home to support your evolution).
Giving voice to our deeper secret desires means that the “the cat is out of the bag”. We have very visibly expressed the truth of what we want and who we are being called to be.
Do it Anyways! Whether it’s stating a clear intentions to the universe for what you secretly want OR your asking for what you want in a relationship whether it be time, money or a new way of being in the dynamic — the same thing applies: Be clear. Be open to negotiate (the universe may have a request for you to play a bigger game as you grow into becoming an energetic match for your desire), be patient, but DO NOT comprise the decision you have made to bring your desired outcome into reality.And, finally… feeling safe in our ability to examine, clarify and claim our desires is often at the root of these and many other reasons women have difficulty unearthing secret desires.
This can be dissolved by finding spaces or creating safe spaces that allow you to drop into your inner world feeling loved, safe and held. Sacred spaces are easy to create through intention, prayer, and sacred objects.
Finding places that nourish like nature or other sanctuaries for the soul allow our feminine essence to feel open, and expansive naturally being able to drop in more fully to the voice of the soul.
Finding people who can hold a loving non judgemental space for us as women (often times another woman who can relate to our journey, challenges and fears) allow our essence to feel held as we unravel layers of fears and blocks.
These of course are just some examples of what women come up against that can prevent her from seeing fully the truth of what she REALLY REALLY wants next.
As we embark on this 2020 year - I truly feel this to be the year where women are being asked to GO BIG & AIM HIGH.
We are powerhouse creators, and many of us are being called at this time to birth ourselves into extraordinary versions of our soulful feminine self. We have for many of us far more resources and opportunities then our feminine lineages ever had.
This is our time.
Let’s write a NEW herstory by giving ourselves full permission to dream bigger than we (or our feminine lineage) ever has.
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Much love divine woman.
I see you.
Your more powerful than you know.
Tara Preston, Feminine Prosperity Mentor, New Paradigm Business Guide, & Akashic Teacher